It is with deep sadness that we announce the unexpected passing of David Eliott Searles, our beloved son, brother, father, and friend. David departed this world on July 12, 2024, leaving our world feeling a little less bright.
Born on June 1, 1979, in El Paso, Texas, David was a remarkable individual who touched the lives of everyone he encountered. His infectious smile and corny jokes had the power to uplift even the heaviest of hearts. A kind and giving soul, David always made time for others, whether they were strangers or lifelong friends. With an exceptional ability to connect with people, David’s capacity for love, and compassion knew no bounds, earning him the nickname “Nice Guy Dave” from his cherished friends, who often relied on his unwavering positivity and support during their toughest moments.
Although he grew up exploring and making friends around the world and the US with his sister Joleen, as they followed their father Hans’, military posts, David established deep roots in Virginia. He attended Tabb High School in Yorktown, earned Associate’s degrees from Virginia Commonwealth University and the Omega School for Audio and Visual Arts, and settled down for years on Monument Ave, in Richmond.
Music was David’s true passion, a source of joy and inspiration throughout his life. He was a master of effortless improvisation on the piano, and regularly engaged in jam sessions with friends. With a vast knowledge of various genres, far evolved from his early days following Phish, his musical expertise was unparalleled, and he truly delighted in sharing his musical discoveries with those around him.
David’s love for nature was equally profound. He found solace in the great outdoors, whether itwas camping, kayaking, hiking, or volunteering for environmental cleanup activities with the Red Cross. He also had a special connection with animals, adoring dogs, cats, and all creatures, and volunteering at the ASPCA.
In addition to his musical talents and philanthropic endeavors, David possessed an innate sense of style. As his friends and family can attest, he always insisted on looking good and stayed keen on the latest trends. Known for his “hot takes,” David fearlessly expressed his opinions, even if they veered far from popular consensus, showcasing that “oh-so-David” confidence. His creativity extended beyond music and fashion, as he was an exceptional chef, always trying new cuisines, and collaborating with his sister, Aly to create unique, curated Christmas menus, with new dishes every year.
David possessed an innate and uncanny ability to just be cool. That said, he did have quite a competitive streak. David’s spirit for competition shone through in his love for games and sports. Whether it was tennis, pool, spades, dominoes, even jeopardy responses, or routing avidly for the 49ers, he approached each with enthusiasm and often to his sisters’ dismay, extensive skill.
He had a passion for exploring, trying new foods, and engaging in meaningful conversations with new acquaintances, friends, and his family. David cherished his family and often spoke of just how grateful he was that they were all so close.
Our beloved David’s legacy lives on through his parents, Susan and Hans Searles, his sisters Joleen and Alyson, his son Sage Gray, and numerous Aunts, Uncles, and cousins.